Wedding in Punta Cana

So, you've decided to get married in beautiful Punta Cana, an area with some of most beautiful beaches in a country with the most beautiful beaches in the world, the Dominican Republic! Can't go wrong here, MAZEL TOV!

If you wish to have a traditional Jewish wedding, know that I'm fully versed in the traditions of our storied past - you'll read about some lower on this page. That said, if you wish to go a more modern route, well, I'm your Rabbi for that too!

Working with the couples I've married, I have written and conducted all kinds of Punta Cana wedding ceremonies in the traditional, spiritual, and non--denominational way.

It's your wedding. I will perform it with your needs and desires. I pride myself on my flexibility in creating a wedding specifically for YOU for any setting for your Punta Cana wedding.

Because I live here in the Dominican Republic, weddings on the beach in Punta Cana have become my specialty. But, it's a small country and I'm available to travel anywhere in it, such as Santo Domingo, Santiago, Punta Cana, to the Samana Peninsula, such as in Las Terrenas (nous parlons français).

If you wish to get married on other islands, such as in Cuba, I'm available (I hold a Canadian passport). Whether small or large, intimate or extravagant, I will work with you to create a memorable occasion for your wedding in Punta Cana.

Traditionial Jewish Wedding Rituals and Customs

Jewish wedding rituals and customs are rich in purpose and significance to marriage.  They are among the most soulful and touching marriage traditions. In fact, many of them date back millennia, as they have resulted from established practices described in the Hebrew Bible, many parts of which were written down as early as 922 to 586 BC.

The rites that take place during a traditional Jewish wedding include:

Ketubah: The traditional marriage contract, which is written in ancient Aramaic. It details the obligations of bride and groom and shows that they are mutually supportive. It is signed by the bride and groom and is considered legally binding under Jewish law. The Ketubah is often framed and displayed in the couple’s home.

Bedeken: The bride’s veil is believed to refer specifically to the first meeting of Rebekah and Isaac in Genesis 24:64-65. In this pre-wedding ceremony, the groom covers the face of his bride with her veil, which then legally confirms that she is the woman he will marry.

Chuppah: The cloth wedding canopy, held up by a pole at each of its four corners, dates back at least to the Middle Ages, when weddings were held outdoors and the canopy was used to create a special, separate place for the exchange of vows. It has come to symbolize the new home created by the joining of bride and groom.

Hakafot: The circling of the groom as the bride walks around him seven times represents not only his central role to her life but also the circle of sheltering love she will provide.
Shevah Berakhot: The rabbi recites seven traditional blessings over the newlyweds.

Breaking the Glass: To conclude the ceremony, the groom smashes underfoot a wineglass wrapped in a cloth, after which guests yell “Mazel tov!” (Good luck!). This act may be taken to recall the destruction of the old temple in Jerusalem or the sorrow of Jewish exile; or to represent the fragility of life or the ending of old ways of life for the newly joined couple.

Chair Dance: During the wedding party, it is traditional for strong guests to dance while lifting both bride and groom, each holding one end of a scarf or napkin, into the air seated on chairs. This interpretation of the Talmudic teaching that guests must bring the couple joy literally elevates the couple to the status of queen and king at their celebration.

All of the above symbolize the importance of the husband-wife relationship and their obligations to the marriage union. The Jewish people value their culture of Judaism, and this is reflected in the traditional Jewish wedding ceremony.

Renewal of Vows and Reaffirmation Ceremony

There are many reasons why some couples choose to reaffirm their commitment to each other through a “Renewal of Vows” or “Reaffirmation” ceremony. Maybe you eloped and now want your family and friends to celebrate with you or you want to commemorate a wedding anniversary, or you wish to remind yourselves of what you promised all those years ago.

Or, as most couples who come to Punta Cana to get married do, you got married quietly at home to avoid all the confusing and demanding legalities of getting married here and now wish to have your real ceremony for yourself, your family, and your friends. Shhh...we won't tell and they won't know the difference!

Whatever your reason might be for renewing your vows, I'll be more than happy to work with you to make your special day a highly memorable event indeed!

What the Rabbi Offers for your Dominican Republic Wedding

You'll find examples of wedding ceremonies here on my website, but know that I will perform your own wedding ceremony according to your deepest wishes and dreams for your special day here on the North Coast or elsewhere in the Dominican Republic. We will work together, conversing on the phone and by email until, together, we come up with the perfect words, the ones that truly represent what you wish to convey in your wedding vows. You'll find me very patient with this process. Of course, if you find that one of the sample ceremonies here fits you perfectly, then, that's what we'll use!